We discuss the main reason people fail to beat their social anxiety: “subconscious resistance to change”.
When you don’t overcome this resistance, you cannot become anxiety-free. Ever.
She says “If you haven’t been able to overcome your problem you have a subconscious resistance to change. Consciously you want to change, but your subconscious (which is much bigger than your conscious mind) says: “We’re not changing because if I go out into a social situation, I’m gonna get hurt, remember what happened last time?!”
She also guides you through an exercise to overcome this subconscious resistance easily and quickly. This is a MUST-listen.
Lindsay Kenny, one of the only 29 EFT Founding Masters, a Life Coach, and EFT AAMET Trainer of Trainers is the expert on subconscious resistance.
She’s s former match maker, specialises in helping people overcome stuck issues, and one of her specialties is to help people create amazing relationships.
She the Founder of the National Alliance for Emotional Health (aka the EFT Institute,) and Progressive EFT™
“Conventional psychology says “let’s desensitise you from that fear by forcing you to face it, little steps at a time where you grid your teeth and bite your finger nails, have your heart pounding and your knuckles white, and you’re just miserable doing it… And all the time your subconscious is yelling NO don’t make me do this!!
Sometimes this (forcefully facing your fears) does work, but it’s so hard to do this. The simple thing is to just neutralise the subconscious resistance to changing.”
Anything by Nick Vujicic, like this.
Be generous with kindly words, especially those who are absent
-Johann Wolfgang von Goethe
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