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84. Get Social Skills 10 Tips that Really Work and a Tap Along

In this episode…

We share 10 social skills you can easily implement as well as a tap along to show you a little of what is possible.

By the end of this episode, you will have social skills to try out for yourself and you will get an experience of a healing technique at the end.

Here are some things you’ll learn:

How to move to the next topic when a conversation dies off.
What to say when being introduced to new people.
How to be the one to break the ice.
How to use your keen ability to sense what others feel to your advantage.
An easy tip to practice when you want to connect with someone, and more.

These tips will help you to do what comes naturally to people who don’t have social anxiety, but we’re also going to start to address the social anxiety problem as well. But this is just the start, be sure to subscribe by clicking on the ‘Get new posts via email’ button under the video for more resources to start your journey to social confidence.

Sebastiaan’s bio:

Sebastiaan has overcome his severe social anxiety disorder and has been anxiety-free for many years. He has been studying solutions to social anxiety since 2002 and has solely been coaching social phobics since October 2009. He is the creator of the EFT-based Social Confidence System.

He has worked with and studied under several of the EFT Masters and tapping experts (Lindsay Kenny, Sophia Cayer, Karl Dawson, Gene Monterastelli, Carol Look, Steve Wells, Dr David Lake and more), has been receiving guidance from his own high level coach (NLP Master, Hypnosis Master, Wellness coach, Julia Reed) since late 2009. His coaching is also being supervised by co-developer of PET (Provocative Energy Therapy), tapping expert, supervisor of therapists, trainer of trainers, and psychotherapist Dr. David Lake.

Quoting Sebastiaan:

“Tip #5: When being introduced to someone new, ask how they know each other. Usually, there’s an interesting story there to get the conversation started.”

Sebastiaan’s Empowering Resource:

Social Confidence Starter Kit here.

Sebastiaan’s Website:

Sebastiaan’s website is here.

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A question I am asked most frequently, is “how long will it take to overcome my social anxiety?”.

And the short answer is that it depends on your situation. But most people can overcome the bulk of your social anxiety in 1-2 months, investing about 30min of tapping on the right issues.

I’ve created a PDF to help you shorten the journey, and to uncover some of the right issues to target your tapping at. This PDF is based on coaching socially phobic clients since 2009, and it’s called “12 Shortcuts to Social Confidence”.

Each shortcut shortens your journey, getting you social anxiety-free much faster.

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Coaching services and EFT-based DIY system to beat social anxiety

When you want my help to overcome your social anxiety, get details of my 1 on 1 online Skype coaching here.

To see if my online EFT tapping-based program to beat social anxiety is a good fit for you, go to my homepage.

I have designed my website in a simple and straightforward way to break down the complex issue of overcoming social anxiety into a step-by-step education. This starts the moment you enter my site.

As I share my own story I teach what I’ve learned, what didn’t work, what mistakes I made you can avoid, and what works time and time again. Plus I break everything down visually step-by-step so the complex becomes easy to digest.

As you read and absorb the information I’ve been able to put together from over a decade of dedication to resolving my own social anxiety, studying under brilliant therapists, and helping socially phobic clients overcome their social anxiety since 2009 you’ll also find out whether the program is for you, or whether you are better served by getting therapy.

You’ll receive all the information and insights you need to make a well-informed, intelligent decision that serves you best and that can you shortcut you on the journey to social confidence significantly.

Click here to go to my homepage.

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Sebastiaan van der Schrier is a Social Confidence Coach and ex social anxiety sufferer. He helps socially anxious people become confident using a unique and painless approach. He is the host of the Social Anxiety Solutions podcast show and runs the first ever online Social Confidence Community.