31. How to get a romantic relationship that is awesome

In this episode…

Alina goes over some of the fears and beliefs that prevent people from getting into a romantic relationship and then shares how to resolve these beliefs. And she also shares common troubles people run into that prevent them from staying in a relationship.

We talk about masturbation, premature ejaculation, not being able to orgasm

We’re talking about how anxiety can damage the sexual passion in a relationship

She says: “Don’t think that this is a problem of will-power. There are things happening in your body and mind that you can get some relief for. It might not be overnight but don’t give up.”

Alina’s bio:

Alina is a trainer and mentor of EFT and Matrix Re-imprinting and she has worked with over 5000 clients. She’s been a contributor to the EFT Masters’ forum where she would write replies to questions surrounding women’s issues, and she’s a master life coach that has been providing relationship coaching for singles and couples since 2005.

Quoting Alina:

“The right person will facilitate healing in you. They will help you grow and evolve and you’ll be a better person as a result of that.”

Alina’s empowering resource:

“The biology of desire – why addiction is not a disease” – Marc Lewis PhD

Alina’s favourite quote

“Brains are designed to restructure themselves with normal learning and development. But this process is accelerated in addiction when highly attractive rewards are pursued repeatedly.”

-Marc Lewis PhD

Alina’s website:

Alina’s website is here

Other resources mentioned

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