238. “What if… it doesn’t work for me?”

In this episode…

Quick story.

When I found this technique and tried it, it actually didn’t work.

But I had seen so many testimonials of it… read on forums about it… and had seen experts of it transform people’s issues right on screen…

… that I was determined to make it work for me.

But despite that ‘thump-my-chest-self-motivation’, I also felt scared.

“What if it doesn’t work for me?”
“What if it works for others, but not for me?”
“What if I’m just too messed up?”

And that fear stuck with me for months, as I tried and tried but got no real results.

I mean, I thought I felt a little better. But nothing like these profound changes I had seen on the DVD’s I bought.

When I got back to Holland (I’m Dutch, but found out about this technique when I was in South Africa, working for IBM), I called a practitioner of the technique.

He invited me to his workshop.

And I was actually scared to go. Because I had been building this up in my mind as ‘The Solution’ I’d been looking for SO MUCH…

… that I was scared to lose that feeling of hope it had given me.

I was thinking “if this doesn’t work, I’m fu*ked”

I was afraid to lose that hope. Because it felt lightyears better than the despair and hopelessness I experienced prior.

Now I ended up going, and had my world rocked (I’ll share what happened in day #1 of the challenge). But I’m sharing this with you because…

… sometimes people rather not take action on something that might work for them…

… rather than to take action and find out it doesn’t work.

And while I totally get that kind of thinking, it would be such a shame for you to miss out on this opportunity.

In today’s episode, hear it from some people who had similar thoughts, but decided to go for it anyway.

Hope this inspires you to get started, right away!

And, this solution I’m providing isn’t even the only way. There are many other ways too. But, it happens to be a very powerful and effective one.

That has worked for tons of people already.

Will it work for you?

I’m convinced it will.

How about giving it at least a committed try?

3 days left before we kick-off!

Join the FREE 30 Day Social Confidence Challenge.

bit.ly/socialconfidencechallenge

And let’s go through #TheJourneyToSocialConfidence together.

See you inside the challenge,
Seb

Want to massively reduce your social anxiety, from the comfort of your own home?

JOIN THE FREE 30-DAY CHALLENGE