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With the Emotional Freedom Techniques-based
“Social Confidence System”
you will overcome your Social Anxiety
without awkwardly facing your fears

If you want to severely reduce your social anxiety in just a few weeks, and with persistence become completely anxiety-free, my Social Confidence System (SCS) may be your ticket to freedom. Contrary to what is taught in mainstream psychology, you do not need to force yourself to awkwardly face your fears. There is a smarter, more effective way to overcome your fears. By applying Emotional Freedom Techniques in the right way (EFT is a gentle tapping technique that combines Ancient Chinese Acupressure and Modern Psychology and allows you to rapidly release negative emotions and negative limiting beliefs) you can become totally anxiety-free.

By systematically applying EFT to your social anxiety challenge (following the 9 step road-map to social confidence) you can feel calm, safe and at ease around others. And you do this EFT tapping from the comfort of your own home. With the SCS you’ll discover step-by-step how to stop feeling anxious and start enjoying social situations. Your social anxiety won’t vanish overnight, of course. But you can expect a progressive reduction in the severity of your social anxiety within days or weeks. By following the easy guidance, you are in control of your results because you will be breaking down the social anxiety one safe step at a time following the 9-step roadmap of the SCS.

Here’s what you get when you order the Social Confidence System

The Social Confidence System consists of articles, audios, and subtitled videos guiding you to releasing your social anxiety in 9 steps. Each of the 9 steps starts with a thorough, logical explanation as to why you will be doing the exercises to complete that step. After each step there is a checklist section making sure you understand everything. After having read the explanation, you go through an exercise to uncover your unique challenges (while you might not know what they are now, the exercises -with lots of examples of clients I have worked with- will help you uncover them without a problem). Then you follow along with the guided EFT tap along audios, or the guided EFT tap along videos that contain subtitles where you are instructed to focus on your unique challenges you have uncovered. You simply follow my lead, say what I say, do EFT tapping where I instruct you to tap, and follow the instructions you see in the subtitled videos. You are literally seeing me on camera telling you what to do and what to say. So you can’t make any mistakes because I guide you every step of the way.

As you do the EFT tapping and focus on your uncovered issues, the EFT tapping will release your negative emotions connected to the uncovered issues and step by step you are getting rid of the negative experiences and negative limiting beliefs that are responsible for the anxiety you experience in social situations. It’s easy and there is a troubleshooting section in case you don’t get instant results. For each challenge there is a simple solution. And if you ever really get stuck and the troubleshooting can’t get you past it (which is highly unlikely) you have direct email access to me and I will help you through it. You can start immediately — no waiting for a package to arrive. Just place your order and you receive the login details to the 9-step Social Confidence System.

Watch the video below for a sample of the Social Confidence System

I’ve broken everything down into easily digestible chunks. That’s been my goal for you, making this as easy for you as possible.  You will be able to sit down for 30min a day, open the Social Confidence System and eliminate one of the building blocks of your social anxiety dungeon. There is a finite amount of steps to take in order to become anxiety-free. While some of the 9 steps take longer than 30 min, and some steps will take you several 30min sessions, each time you sit down to do your inner work you’re getting one step closer to feeling free socially.


I’ve spent most of my teens and twenties looking for *the* social anxiety cure, if such a thing actually existed. After a 10+ year search (& plenty of snake oil salesmen), I stumbled over the psychological equivalent of the holy grail: EFT; Sebastiaan’s EFT-based Social Confidence System. I’ve made more headway in a few months using the SCS than the previous 10+ years of talk therapy, cog-behavioral therapy, hypnosis & affirmations combined.

Seriously. This s–t works.

Thanks again, Sebastiaan!

As you start using the SCS you will:

  • Feel relief the first exercise you do (feel more calm) and chip away at your social anxiety every single time you complete an exercise in the system (so you notice results quickly)
  • Overcome procrastination and maintain your motivation (the section Overcoming Subconscious Resistance is dedicated to this area ensuring that you keep going until you have the results you want)
  • Feel better and get the fastest results possible because we use the most effective and efficient techniques from the best therapies and methods out there put on steroids by combining them with the most powerful technique of them all; EFT.
  • Systematically eliminate the building blocks of your social anxiety (STEP #4 “Eliminating Your Social Anxiety Triggers: you are guided to uncover what they are and you are instructed how to easily move past them so you’re breaking down your social anxiety one safe step at a time)
  • Overcome shame and perfectionism so you stop blushing, panicking and sweating and it becomes safe to be yourself around others, safe to connect with others (STEP #5 “Neutralizing Shame And Perfectionism)
  • Destroy all your social fears (fear of not being liked/fear of not being accepted/fear of looking foolish/fear of being rejected/fear of being disapproved of/fear of being ridiculed/fear of being challenged/fear of getting into a conflict/fear of becoming embarrassed/fear of being seen as anxious/ fear of criticism/etc.) and feel comfortable when you are the center of attention (STEP#6 Overcome Social Fears And Beliefs)
  • Stop altering your ways of being because you fear what others think of you, but instead feel free to do what you feel like doing, feeling comfortable to be YOU
  • Stop feeling lonely and frustrated, and gain a sense of acceptance and peace
  • Gain emotional control. When something triggers you feeling bad you will not only know how to overcome the negative emotion so you quickly feel better (using The Tapping Formula you always know what to say to neutralize negative emotions and regain a sense of calm), you will also have the tools to diagnose why you got triggered and then eliminate the trigger. The next time in the exact same situation you won’t get triggered anymore and you won’t end up feeling bad anymore because nothing triggers the bad feeling.


My bad feelings towards people at work have lessened so much that I feel a bit of empathy with them, like I’m starting to understand where they are coming from. I’m excited because I really feel changes already. I know I still have a long way to go but I feel lighter and am even starting to interact with people at work who I never could talk with much before. And this is without really trying and pushing myself to.

As you move from one step to the next, your faith in becoming anxiety-free will start to grow and you’ll start feeling calmer, more in control, less anxious and bit by bit your natural confidence starts to appear in more and more situations. Now- this is NOT a quick-fix solution. It will require your time, effort, and energy to break down your social anxiety piece by piece. You’ve suffered from social anxiety for years, maybe even your whole life. So it will take some time to undo the negative programming. But it’s not hard. And you will notice results quickly. You’ll feel it working the first EFT exercise you do. Most people feel a lessening in their social anxiety within one week, and make massive progress within just a few weeks. As you keep moving forward, your life opens up, you’ll become free to express yourself, and eventually you can start new hobbies, create deep connections and rewarding friendships, start dating and so forth.

Imagine feeling good about yourself, looking forward to social gatherings, and feeling welcome, accepted and connected with others. The SCS gives you a roadmap to getting there. It allows you to create such confidence from the inside that you’ll feel safe to create a satisfying social life with friends that like and respect you.


Hi sebastiaan,

I just wanna tell u that this is really the most powerful programe i have ever tried. I am working on childhood baggage step 3, and iam not finish at all, but i have already started to feel calm and at peace (which i haven’t done the last 13 years) soo thank u. I want u to know that your work makes a big difference, u help people u save people ( this maybe sound a bit dramatic to u but i really mean it ) bcozi know it from my self . I will recommend this scs to others as well.

God bless u soo much.

As you keep moving forward one safe and easy step at a time, you will:

  • Completely like, trust, accept, value and respect yourself and expect others to like, trust, accept, value and respect you too (STEP #1 Create A Goal And Start The Process Of Acceptance”& other steps)
  • Be surprised by the speed of improvement in your social skills  (socializing is only hard because you feel anxious and insecure… Once you feel safe and confident, socializing becomes effortless, also for an introvert because you no longer feel you must behave a certain way to be acceptable, because you accept yourself.Being YOU becomes safe)
  • Let go of your negative thinking habits and develop positive thinking habits (“Changing Your Thinking Patterns” will help you become realistically optimistic, have positive expectations and feel happier)
  • Start to feel confident and be yourself around anyone and everyone (Including attractive people, groups of people, strangers, people in authority and “cool” or successful people).
  • Be able to conquer any area of interest that was formerly “too scary” such as starting a new hobby, dating, getting an intimate relationship, travel, advance your career, etc. (by following along with STEP #8 “Non-Scary Exposures” you will eliminate your fear of a specific social situation FIRST.
  • Once you no longer fear the formerly feared situation you go out and calmly facethe situation you used to fear. Doing so you’re comfortably expanding your comfort zone, you raise your confidence, and you learn that social situations are safe for you)
  • Start enjoying conversations and socializing, making and maintaining eye contact naturally, and havinga great time meeting new people
  • Finally feel like you belong, feel normal, feel connected and part of a community
  • Stop beating yourself up for not living your potential and finally start living your potential
  • Start feeling safe to having close, connected and rewarding relationships with others
  • Be able to create great friendships or deepen the ones you have. You’ll feel strong on the inside and will be able to design the social life that you enjoy, and (instead of dreading them and worrying about them days before) you will actually start looking forward to social events, dinners, get-togethers, birthday parties, weddings, etc.
  • Enjoy social confidence for the rest of your life.

While the SCS is not a magic pill (you of course do have to put in the effort to get results) I know that that when you start using EFT in the right way you will get powerful results. When you follow the steps one after the other, your anxiety will get less and less, and your natural confidence will start to come out and in time confidence becomes second nature to you.


After many therapy sessions with psychologists (for 3 years) I found Sebastiaan’s program. The story about his past seemed similar to mine and it made me decide to buy his program and give it a go. I’m very happy I did this! I definitely notice a difference. I’ve become comfortable in busy places (bars, cinemas, trains, restaurants, concerts, etc.) and have more energy to do what I feel like doing. Of course I sometimes still have some fear that something will go wrong, but the beauty of this program is that you take that into consideration, use EFT, and then go for it! I’m not anxiety-free yet, and I daily use EFT to keep moving forward. The differences with EFT before and after are very subtle, that’s the beauty of this. You sometimes after a few days think to yuourself, he I don’t feel so nervous anymore. Step by step I become more and more calm and relaxed! Really a tremendous relief. You can start with my System right now and in a few minutes you can get started with releasing your social anxiety.

How Much Does It Cost?

If you work with me 1 on 1 in person you pay $150 per hour. Skype sessions are $133 per 90min session. On average, I work with clients for 10 sessions or more. I’ve been able to put the SCS together as a result of 1000’s of hours of being coached, and coaching socially phobic clients. The things that worked consistently I have made into easily applicable steps that you take step by step. You can compare the SCS with having 20 coaching sessions with me. But I’ve priced the Social Confidence System so that anyone who is committed to release their social anxiety can afford it.

60-Day Money-Back Guarantee

Because the SCS is tested and works, and because I know that by applying EFT Therapy in the right way your life will be changed like mine and my clients’ have, I’m eliminating all risk for you. You can start the Social Confidence System today RISK FREE for 60 days.

When you use the Social Confidence System and don’t notice a significant improvement in your social anxiety after 60 days, I will happily give you a full refund. You only pay if you get results. I know it works when you put in the work and commit. Here’s me saying that to you on video:

 Frequently Asked Questions


As someone who has been suffering in silence with Social Anxiety for a good 15 years, getting progressively worse the older I get, I was getting to the point it was affecting me on a daily basis and living in fear everyday of what was going to happen was extremely frustrating and really getting me down and I felt so frustrated and angry as it was holding me back from all the things I wanted to achieve in my life and being the real me. After trying a few self help things on the internet that were a complete waste of money I was beginning to accept that this might be the way my life is always going to be, as I couldn’t afford to go and see a hypnotherapist/EFT practitioner. Although I had heard how powerful EFT could be if you knew what you were doing. Then luckily for me I stumbled across Sebastiaan who I really can’t thank enough for creating such an amazing self help program. When I started using the program about a month and half ago I was a little skeptical and I think I underestimated the power of these EFT techniques he guides you through. But I kept an open mind as I wanted nothing more than to find a cure for this. After literally just a couple of sessions I truly felt a release inside me somehow, I can’t quite explain it. This of course did not solve my social anxiety by any means, but did release something…

… and feeling this power of these exercises really gave me the motivation and positivity that finally after all the searching I may have really found something that I can use myself and can really help me overcome this anxiety once and for all! Sebastiaan has made the program so step by step and easy to follow, you really can’t go wrong. All you need to do is read the information and follow along with the video’s and audio’s. I will say for this to work you do have to be persistent, your anxiety is not going to disappear in a couple of days.. It’s much more complex than you think, there are a lot of layers you need to go through and you do really need to dedicate yourself to clear all of your social anxiety. But as you work through it you will experience changes and shifts and gradually the triggers of your SA will get less and less and this really does give you the motivation to keep going. I finished using the program only yesterday after 30 days testing and I can honestly say I feel my social anxiety has really improved to 95% maybe even completely… I can’t tell you that for sure yet as I have only just finished the program and I haven’t been in a situation to trigger my anxiety yet, but what I know for a fact is that while working through the program my trigger situations were getting less and less and my confidence to speak out was rising and now when I think about certain situations that would normally make me anxious I can’t make myself feel anxious. That really is an amazing life changing feeling, I feel like a different person. I would recommend this program to anyone without a doubt, the content and life changing value you will receive is priceless! You will be glad you gave it a go, I know I am! 🙂


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