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Online Social Anxiety Coaching from the Comfort of Your Home

Sebastiaan van der SchrierSebastiaan has overcome his severe social anxiety disorder and has been anxiety-free for many years. He has been studying solutions to social anxiety since 2002, and has solely been coaching social phobics since October 2009. 

He is the creator of the EFT-based Social Confidence System.
He has worked with and studied under several of the EFT Masters and tapping experts (Lindsay Kenny, Sophia Cayer, Karl Dawson, Gene Monterastelli, Carol Look, Steve Wells, Dr David Lake and more), has been receiving guidance from his own high level coach (NLP Master, Hypnosis Master, Wellness coach, Julia Reed) since late 2009. His coaching is also being supervised by co-developer of PET (Provocative Energy Therapy), tapping expert, supervisor of therapists, trainer of trainers, and psychotherapist Dr. David Lake.

How You Can Overcome Social Anxiety with 1 on 1 Skype Coaching

The key to our coaching sessions is finding and eliminating the negative limiting beliefs and releasing the negative emotions (shame, fears, anxieties, embarrassment, etc.) that hold you back from feeling safe in social situations.

Together we’ll form a team to break unhelpful patterns and update old programming that no longer serves you. We aim to create new ways of thinking, feeling, and behaving that facilitate you feeling totally comfortable and confident in social settings.

Our aim here is to release all the beliefs causing your subconscious mind to label social situations as dangerous.

From my limited experience, once this happens, your subconscious mind no longer fires off the fight, flight, freeze response and you will no longer experience anxiety in social situations.

By peeling away the layers of social anxiety you come to feel comfortable and at ease around others. As you feel safe to be yourself connecting will no longer be hard, or feel uncomfortable. Instead, connecting can feel warm and enjoyable. From this place it’s possible to create healthy friendships, have fun in social situations, live your potential, and create the life you want.

TESTIMONIAL:

After just one session, those feelings of discomfort had completely vanished, I found myself feeling completely calm and relaxed in situations that had previously made me stiffen up, feel self conscious, awkward and generally very uncomfortable.

The results I have had have been amazing. After many years of trying various things in vain, I have seen spectacular results very quickly since working with sebastiaan.

Quite frankly, I have never felt better and I strongly recommend his work, it has done wonders for me.

Charlie, UK

During the coaching process I will use the most effective tools and strategies from several therapies (Provocative Energy Therapy (PET), Inner child work, Neuro Linguistic Programming (NLP), Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT), and others) in combination with powerful emotional release techniques (EFT being the main one).

TESTIMONIAL:

I noticed marked differences in how I felt during social situations, I felt more at ease and able to contribute to conversations and really enjoy myself without having to worry about what others thought of me.

Even though I still feel anxiety at times, I believe it is no more than a normal person would feel, and it does not affect me in a negative way. My social anxiety is no longer controlling my life, and I am so grateful for that! Thanks, Sebastiaan!

– Trevor Dowdle

How I Can Help You

I suffered from social anxiety for over a decade and from social anxiety disorder for roughly half a decade.

Probably just like you, I have felt terribly afraid, ashamed, humiliated, embarrassed, rejected, frustrated and hopelessly lonely and depressed. I felt alone in the world. I feared I’d never have close relationships. I’ve been through many major challenges and thanks to some brilliant therapists, my own long-term high-level coach’s guidance and powerful emotional release techniques, I have been able to overcome these challenges.

During a session, I listen to you attentively, meet you where you are, and do my best to assist you in releasing your challenges.

With empathy for your situation I will probe and challenge you to break your unhelpful patterns that keep you stuck.

You might find that I can relate to much of what you have to go through on a day-to-day basis just to keep your poise around the people that you just have to meet.

I may be able to provide you with insights into changing your thinking patterns, negative limiting beliefs, fears and avoidance patterns.

You may prefer working 1 on 1 with me because…

    • You get to work with someone who has perspective and can see the challenges you’re blind to yourself.
    • You get to share your story and challenges with someone who can relate to most of them.
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You get to spend time with someone who for the duration of the session (90min) is totally present with you, who deeply listens to what you have to share, and who has the experience to see some of the deeper issues that prevent you from moving to the next level.
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You get to be guided by someone who has overcome his social anxiety, 
who lovingly comes from the heart and at the same time watches you like a hawk and calls you out on any in-congruencies in a perceptive, sometimes humorous way which invites you to accept it and move past it.
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You converse with someone who meets you where you’re at and gently probes you and invites you to come to your own insights in order to update the outdated programs that sabotage your life.
    • You receive ongoing support, encouragement, and perspective.
    • You get to report your progress and set backs, receive insights, help, guidance, and effective strategies that might take you to the next level, if you’re ready.
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You get to talk with someone who’s lived in 3 different countries and has built up a healthy, enjoyable social life who can share insights that may help you.
    • Compared to DIY or the SCS, 1 on 1 coaching gets you the deepest and fastest results.

TESTIMONIAL:

I find you very competent, friendly, warm and very understanding person to be. Your kind manner makes me always feel relax although it was not like that from the start, I think you can understand why. For me personally I feel I can tell you everything and we can still laugh afterwards, that’s what makes you so different.

Thank you very much for your help up to now.

Kind regards

-Zelma

TESTIMONIAL:

“I was amazed by the results. The change happened immediately! I could feel the decrease in social anxiety right away.

Sebastiaan was really helpful and understanding. He was very nice and he made me feel comfortable during the sessions. My social anxiety is extremely reduced. I now have a more positive attitude, and I am more outgoing.”

-C.A. from Idaho

TESTIMONIAL:

“After the first session with Sebastiaan, I remember feeling lighter. The next day at University, talking to people wasn’t so bad and I could concentrate in class. I was actually learning instead of worrying about my anxious thoughts and about what everyone else thought.

As I write this it seems ridiculous that these ludicrous thoughts of the past frightened me so much.

I am a whole different person to what I was when I first started, I am more powerful and in control”.

-Michael K., Sydney Australia

What Results Can I Expect?

It is common that during each session some of your negative emotions are being released, your beliefs be challenged and changed, and that some of your unhelpful patterns that are sabotaging you are being interrupted.

It is common to feel relief after the first session, but keep in mind that this is not a magic pill. You typically improve every session, and it is possible and common to feel a reduction in your social anxiety within a few weeks.

How long it exactly takes to be free of anxiety is impossible for me to predict as each person is unique and therefore each situation is different. It depends on how long you have been anxious, the severity and frequency of your anxiety, the causes to it, the amount of resistance you’re dealing with, and your current life circumstances, to name but a few determining factors.

Expecting to be anxiety-free after a single session when you have suffered from social anxiety for as long as you can remember is not realistic. This is not a quick-fix, but a powerful approach aimed at overcoming a big challenge that influences every area of your life.

To overcome this completely likely takes time, effort, and dedication.

As we work through the underlying problems of your social anxiety, it’s likely that not just your social anxiety lessens and disappears, but that other areas of your life start to improve as well.

You may find your self esteem rising, and as you feel better about yourself people responding to you more favourably.

Imagine connecting with others effortlessly, actually enjoying yourself socially.

Unlocking your true self can benefit your career, health, relationships, and most importantly, your overall happiness and fulfilment in life.

Realistic expectations are that you continuously feel better about yourself, stronger, more confident, less anxious overall, and have less and less situations that trigger the anxiety response within you.

In between sessions you can speed up the process by doing the exercises I suggest, tailored to your specific situation. They are typically tapping exercises that are simple to do and yet they enhance and build on the healing process that has been set into motion during our sessions.

The next time we meet we evaluate how you’re doing and we attempt to get rid of things preventing you from feeling safe socially.

As we focus on releasing negative emotions and changing negative limiting beliefs to positive ones, we’re aiming to retrain you to be less and less anxious, and feel more and more naturally confident.

Imagine going out to a social gathering and actually having fun, being in the moment and enjoying yourself.

How Do I apply for 1 on 1 Coaching?

To serve you best and make sure we’re a good match, we start with a brief intro-chat.

To apply for an intro-chat, contact me and put in the subject line “social anxiety coaching”.

I will get back to you within 24 hours with a link to my online calendar so you can schedule our intro-chat on Skype.

After you have confirmed the date, I will send you a client form to complete and return to me. All information will remain confidential, just between you and me. This client form gives both of us a clearer picture of your challenges and goals.

Once we meet we have a brief (15-30min) intro-chat to see if I’m the right person to help you with your challenge, or if it is perhaps better for you that I refer you to someone else who is a better match for you (in most cases I can help you, but in some situations when the challenge is not social anxiety, a different expert can help you better).

Once we agree that we’re a good team, you decide on which coaching package you will invest in and we find a time and date that works for you to meet for our first session.

During our 90min. online Skype coaching sessions I do whatever I feel is best for you to move to the next level. My sole mission during a session is to break your unhelpful patterns that keep you stuck, help you heal your deepest wounds, and help you take your life to the next level once you are ready for it.

Choose one of the three Skype Coaching options:

Platinum Package (Save $25 per session)
Ten 90-minute social confidence coaching sessions to overcome social anxiety for $1750

plus the Social Confidence Systemplus e-mail support during our coaching.

Diamond Package (Save $10 per session)
Three 90-minute social confidence coaching sessions to overcome social anxiety for $570

plus the Social Confidence Systemplus e-mail support during our coaching.

 

Gold Package (Only available if you already own the SCS)
One 90-minute social confidence coaching sessions to overcome social anxiety for $200

Once you have made the payment, I will be notified via email and I will get back to you within 24 hours with a suggestion to meet for an intro-talk so we can get started as soon as possible.

Click here to read full testimonials from social anxiety sufferers who have taken my one-on-one coaching program to overcome their social anxiety.

Contact me for a 15-Minute Consultation

In order to schedule an intro-chat, click here to contact me and put in the subject line “intro-chat for coaching”.

I’ll get back to you within 48 hours, usually within 12 hours, and we’ll schedule a time to talk.

I look forward to hearing from you.

Warm regards,

Sebastiaan van der Schrier