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46. Ending self-sabotage and inherited anxiety for good

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In this episode…

We talk about what self sabotage is and why it shows up, and what to do about it. Jacqui shares how it often can come as a result of ancestral patterns, or how anxiety can be inherited.

Jacqui guides you through a tapping sequence to help you release any ancestral/inherited patterns leading to self sabotage.

We then discuss how to work towards clearing all the resistance on the journey to being socially confident for life.

Jacqui’s bio:

Jacqui is an EFT Founding Master with a background in Ericksonian hypnotherapy and NLP.

She is is one of the pioneers in using Energy Psychology, finding EFT IN 1999 and transforming and simplifying it’s use, so that it can be used to quickly get to and clear, deep core beliefs.

Jacqui specializes in helping people to change limiting beliefs and old family and ancestral patterns that create self sabotage.

Quoting Jacqui:

“If you’re not doing something it’s because a part of you thinks you’ll die if you do it.”

Jacqui’s website:

Jacqui’s website is here.

Jacqui’s favorite quote:

“All problems were once solutions. – Milton Erickson”

Other resources mentioned:

Read how science proves trauma can be inherited here.

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I’ve created a PDF to help you shorten the journey, and to uncover some of the right issues to target your tapping at. This PDF is based on coaching socially phobic clients since 2009, and it’s called “12 Shortcuts to Social Confidence”.

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I have designed my website in a simple and straightforward way to break down the complex issue of overcoming social anxiety into a step-by-step education. This starts the moment you enter my site.

As I share my own story I teach what I’ve learned, what didn’t work, what mistakes I made you can avoid, and what works time and time again. Plus I break everything down visually step-by-step so the complex becomes easy to digest.

As you read and absorb the information I’ve been able to put together from over a decade of dedication to resolving my own social anxiety, studying under brilliant therapists, and helping socially phobic clients overcome their social anxiety since 2009 you’ll also find out whether the program is for you, or whether you are better served by getting therapy.

You’ll receive all the information and insights you need to make a well-informed, intelligent decision that serves you best and that can you shortcut your on journey to social confidence significantly.

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Sebastiaan van der Schrier is a Social Confidence Coach and ex social anxiety sufferer. He helps socially anxious people become confident using a unique and painless approach. He is the host of the Social Anxiety Solutions podcast show and runs the first ever online Social Confidence Community.

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