Yes, I'd like to overcome my Social Anxiety!

Sign up to receive the FREE
"The 7 Secrets to Social Confidence" Mini Course!

20. How to make dating comfortable and safe

[easy-share buttons=”facebook,twitter,google,pinterest,linkedin,mail” counters=0 native=“no”]

In this episode…

Cathy Vartuli, who didn’t date for 13 years because she’s a 320 pound woman who was afraid to get rejected for her weight, shares her story of transformation in this interview. She did a session with an expert and two weeks later she was dating and has been on hundreds of dates since.

She says: “I had all the fears about how I looked. As I worked through it, I realised all of us have insecurities. And that was a big A-HA moment. I thought I was the only person in the world that felt awkward and out of place and everybody else was fine. Because I can’t see in other people’s heads, I had this belief that they had it all together and it was just me that’s messed up. When I started letting go of that enough to get closer to people I realised everybody feels awkward.”

And she also shares:

-How much self acceptance has to do with dating
-What she did to make dating safe for herself and how you can make it safe and fun
-How to take the pressure off dating

Cathy’s bio:

Cathy is a sex-positive Emotional Freedom Coach who helps people transform their traumas into their greatest strengths using love, laughter and inner guidance. She uses a practical yet intuitive approach to help people connect with their own power and guidance.

Since 2006, Cathy has worked with 1000s of clients, and loves helping people reclaim their confidence, self-expression and inner power.

Quoting Cathy:

“I’ve learned to accept myself. This is who I am and this is who I get to be. And I get to live my life. I didn’t want to wake up at the end of my life and go “where did my life go?”. I wanted to start living it now. And the only way to do that is to start accepting yourself where you are right now, with your anxiety, with your awkwardness.”

Cathy’s empowering resource:

Robert Golver – no more mister nice guy

Cathy’s favourite quote

“Say the things you don’t want to say, scare them away if you can in the beginning and then if they stay they’re a good fit and you’re going to have an easy time with it.
-Reid Mihalko”

Cathy’s website:

Cathy’s website is here
And her other website is here

Subscribe to the “Social Anxiety Solutions” podcast!

rsz_itunes-button-300x109 rsz_4stitcher-logo-300x152
(by subscribing you automatically get next week’s show downloaded to your podcast player)

Can you please help spread the message?

I would really appreciate a simple (one sentence is enough) review in iTunes as this is seen as a “stamp of approval” which causes iTunes to know this show is great and will therefore be shown to more people who’re struggling to beat their social anxiety.

Coaching services and EFT-based DIY system to beat social anxiety

When you want my help to overcome your social anxiety, get details of my 1 on 1 online Skype coaching here.

To see if my online EFT tapping-based program to beat social anxiety is a good fit for you, go to my homepage.

I have designed my website in a simple and straightforward way to break down the complex issue of overcoming social anxiety into a step-by-step education. This starts the moment you enter my site.

As I share my own story I teach what I’ve learned, what didn’t work, what mistakes I made you can avoid, and what works time and time again. Plus I break everything down visually step-by-step so the complex becomes easy to digest.

As you read and absorb the information I’ve been able to put together from over a decade of dedication to resolving my own social anxiety, studying under brilliant therapists, and helping socially phobic clients overcome their social anxiety since 2009 you’ll also find out whether the program is for you, or whether you are better served by getting therapy.

You’ll receive all the information and insights you need to make a well-informed, intelligent decision that serves you best and that can you shortcut your on journey to social confidence significantly.

Click here to go to my homepage.

Want to overcome your Social Anxiety
without awkwardly facing your fears?

Start with the FREE “7 Secrets to Social Confidence” Mini Course!

The '7 Secrets to Social Confidence' Mini Course explains...

The 5 Stages to Social Confidence
See video testimonials of former sufferers who beat SA. And get a roadmap on how to free yourself of SA.
How Social Anxiety works
Discover why you experience SA, what happens in mind and body and how you can get rid of SA completely.
The Power of EFT Tapping
Find out why tapping is the best tool to overcome Social Anxiety completely, how it works and tap along with world class experts.
The 3 Keys to Social Ease
Learn about the best kept secrets to overcome Social Anxiety, and how to use them on your journey to Social Confidence.

Sign up now to receive the FREE ``7 Secrets to Social Confidence`` Mini Course!

Bonus: Get a 22 minute Transformation Video to instantly reduce your Social Anxiety!
Join me
21. The healing power of forgiveness
19. Is big massive change too good to be true?