19. Is big massive change too good to be true?

In this episode…

Sue shares how to get started with big change so that you maintain your motivation. She shares how to go from despair to hopeful. She explains the difference between “white knuckling change” (using ongoing will-power) versus true transformation.

She shares in this interview the one thing you should focus on to make the biggest change that lasts.

Sue’s bio:

Sue originally trained in psychodynamic psychotherapy, is an experienced Hypnotherapist, NLP Master Practitioner, EFT Founding Master and AAMET Master Trainer of Trainers.

Sue has extensive experience working with addictions, recovery and personal transformation – She is the author of “Healing the Addicted Heart – 5 Stages of Transformation with EFT”.

Quoting Sue:

“Can we change our identity? YES! Everything that is connected to what we believe is only appearing to be real because we believe it, so we can change it.”

Sue’s empowering resource:

A return to love – Marianne Williamson

Sue’s favourite quote

“Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate. Our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure. It is our light, not our darkness that most frightens us. We ask ourselves, Who am I to be brilliant, gorgeous, talented, and fabulous? Actually, who are you not to be? You are a child of God. Your playing small does not serve the world. There is nothing enlightened about shrinking so that other people will not feel insecure around you. We are all meant to shine, as children do. We were born to make manifest the glory of God that is within us. It is not just in some of us; it is in everyone and as we let our own light shine, we unconsciously give others permission to do the same. As we are liberated from our own fear, our presence automatically liberates others.

-Marianne Williamson”

Sue’s website:

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Other resources mentioned

Healing the Addicted Heart – 5 Stages of Transformation with EFT – Sue Beer

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