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My buddy Tom Woodfin and I discuss the nice guy syndrome.
A topic based on a book called No More Mister Nice Guy: A Proven Plan for Getting What You Want in Love, Sex, and Life by Dr. Robert Glover.
If you feel you go through life with this nice persona and you struggle with having boundaries, feeling like you give more than you get back, or you have indirect or passive-aggressive behaviors, then this post is for you.
Tom and I discuss in depth:
- What is the nice guy/gal syndrome
- Two anxiety patterns and toxic shame core
- Fear of Conflict
Tom is a former MMA-fighter and social anxiety disorder sufferer turned inner journey expert. You can find him at his website here.
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Sebastiaan van der Schrier is a Social Confidence Coach and ex social anxiety sufferer. He helps socially anxious people become confident using a unique and painless approach. He is the host of the Social Anxiety Solutions podcast show and runs the first ever online Social Confidence Community.
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