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126. Social Anxiety? Stop feeling “I’m not good enough”!

In this episode…

I’m sharing how you can start to chip away at the common belief “I’m not good enough.”

To overcome social anxiety means that you feel safe to be yourself in social situations. That isn’t going to happen when you are full of negative emotions and limiting beliefs about yourself like this one.

The great thing is that you learned all of these since being born. They are not in fact the truth.

By the end of this episode, you should understand:

-Why you don’t feel safe to be yourself in social situations when you have social anxiety.
-Why you have negative beliefs about yourself, like the common one: “I’m not good enough”.
-What you can do about negative beliefs like this (necessary to overcome how your social anxiety).
-We’ll also do a Tapping exercise to start to shift things around the negative thought “I’m not good enough”.

I’ve guided hundreds through this journey, after having gone through it myself. So I’m going to guide you through an exercise so you can get a small taste of this emotional release technique.

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A question I am asked most frequently, is “how long will it take to overcome my social anxiety?”.

And the short answer is that it depends on your situation. But most people can overcome the bulk of your social anxiety in 1-2 months, investing about 30min of tapping on the right issues.

I’ve created a PDF to help you shorten the journey, and to uncover some of the right issues to target your tapping at. This PDF is based on coaching socially phobic clients since 2009, and it’s called “12 Shortcuts to Social Confidence”.

Each shortcut shortens your journey, getting you social anxiety-free much faster.

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When you want my help to overcome your social anxiety, get details of my 1 on 1 online Skype coaching here.

To see if my online EFT tapping-based program to beat social anxiety is a good fit for you, go to my homepage.

I have designed my website in a simple and straightforward way to break down the complex issue of overcoming social anxiety into a step-by-step education. This starts the moment you enter my site.

As I share my own story I teach what I’ve learned, what didn’t work, what mistakes I made you can avoid, and what works time and time again. Plus I break everything down visually step-by-step so the complex becomes easy to digest.

As you read and absorb the information I’ve been able to put together from over a decade of dedication to resolving my own social anxiety, studying under brilliant therapists, and helping socially phobic clients overcome their social anxiety since 2009 you’ll also find out whether the program is for you, or whether you are better served by getting therapy.

You’ll receive all the information and insights you need to make a well-informed, intelligent decision that serves you best and that can you shortcut you on the journey to social confidence significantly.

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Sebastiaan van der Schrier is a Social Confidence Coach and ex social anxiety sufferer. He helps socially anxious people become confident using a unique and painless approach. He is the host of the Social Anxiety Solutions podcast show and runs the first ever online Social Confidence Community.