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What If You Would Have To Live With Your Social Anxiety Disorder FOREVER?!

Ending old and lonely, looking back on a wasted life, constantly having feared rejection...

That was my biggest fear. And now I have complete social confidence and the life of my dreams. And with EFT I'm able to bring you the same (read on for scientific proof).


“Could it really be possible to overcome your social phobia and feel confident in ALL social situations?”

YES!


Imagine a painless, risk-free (no results, no pay) manner to overcome your social anxiety disorder within weeks from now. Being coached by me, an ex-social phobia sufferer and current social confidence coach. From the comfort of sitting behind your PC I will eliminate your social anxiety and assist you in getting you confident in ALL social interactions.

“What if I told you that you can cure your social anxiety and feel comfortable in ALL social situations within a few months from now?”

Hear and see me explain things a little:

Imagine an incredibly rapid and painless way to cure your social anxiety disorder: From the comfort of your own house and the ease of sitting behind your PC we will cure your social phobia. You will be coached by me, an ex-social phobia sufferer and current social confidence coach.


So you can just let whatever comes up come out, knowing that you are safe as I will guide you through the process of change.

If you’ve been stuck for a long, long time, this is what you have been looking for.



“Becoming Socially Confident From The Comfort Of Your Own Home”

In the 1 on 1 coaching sessions you will be speaking to me via Skype; a free software program that you can easily install on your PC.
But, just the thought of being coached via skype frightens me...

I understand. That's is why I’ve created the video below to help you feel a bit more calm about getting coached online. Have a look at it and follow along with the simple instructions.

After having seen this you’ll probably feel much more comfortable with the idea of coaching before we even start the sessions.

So you won‘t dread being coached online as you might dread going to a CBT (Cognitive Behavioral Therapist) or other therapist.

You will cure your social anxiety online, in a relaxed state of mind.

And in case there’s still a little anxiousness left after seeing the video, I’ll help you get over it at the beginning of the first session. I will always try my best to make the process of achieving social confidence to be as easy and comfortable as possible.

Contrary to what you might believe now, overcoming social anxiety does NOT have to be struggle.

And most often I will be the one having my webcam on and you are simply only using your microphone.

Using skype coaching is the easiest and most comfortable way to cure your social anxiety for FOREVER.

You now don’t have to get out of your house to see a therapist. You are just dealing with this from the comfort of your own home!

Nobody will have to know that you are getting coaching so no embarrassing procedures of finding the right therapist, going out of your way to see him/her etc.

You can just logon and become socially comfortable, sitting behind your PC. It’s the most comfortable and easiest way for you to finally cure your social anxiety.



“You Don’t Have To “Push Through” And “Face Your Fears”

We will be using the latest and most effective tools from several forms of therapy to cure your social anxiety disorder.

The main tool I'll use to assist you in becoming comfortable socially is called EFT (Emotional Freedom Technique) or MTT (Meridian Tapping Techniques).

For more info on this amazing tool and how it exactly works go here and here.

If you are really dedicated to overcoming your social anxiety disorder, you absolutely want to have a serious look at the links above. These will get you excited and convince you about it being possible to really cure your social anxiety disorder for good.

And for free videos (subscribe to the free newsletter) where I demonstrate EFT and guide you through a simple EFT process so you can experience the power of the tool for yourself, go here

In the coaching we will together eliminate your negative emotions (shame, fears, anxieties, embarrassment etc.) and change your irrational, limiting beliefs into powerful ones.

It’s all a pain free process in which you will comfortably cure your social anxiety.

You will experience some negative emotions, yet you won't dwell in them for any longer than necessary. I'm talking about minutes here.

There are no hours and hours of talking about your problems, just steps that directly get to the core.

So you feel better, energized and relieved after every single session.

Plus, you will notice the progress quickly and you can feel at ease in social situations within weeks from now.



“You Will Be Coached By Me, An Ex Social Anxiety Sufferer That Has Solved His Own Social Anxiety And Is Now A Social Confidence Coach”

I have suffered from social anxiety for 6 years and have eventually found ways to cure my social anxiety. I know exactly where you are coming from, I’ve felt your pain. I know how you feel and what you have to go through on a day to day basis.

So I understand your feelings and thinking.

I have the utmost respect for you taking charge and taking back your life. I will increase your motivation as I know what doubts and fears you experience.

I will do anything possible to make the whole process to becoming socially confident as comfortable for you as possible.

I am a friendly guy who has empathy for your situation and I know exactly what I’m doing.

I have tried and tested all the things that might cure social anxiety. I kept the best and mastered it so I could successfully apply it to assist you in overcoming your social anxiety disorder, and in becoming confident in ALL social situations.

By being personally coached 1 on 1 by me, we will get better and faster results because I don’t have to guess and be surprised about the thoughts and emotions you experience.

I can help you improve, rebuild or create a social life from scratch so that you will soon be living the social life that YOU desire.



“Why Is Online Coaching The Perfect Solution?”

  • We will have the quickest recovery possible

    That’s a bold statement, I know. But I’m being truthful here.

    It has personally taken me around 6 years to completely cure my social anxiety myself, and become confident in all social situations. AND to build up an amazing social life.

    In this long search I have investigated and applied just about any technique, strategy and therapy on the market.

    Of those I’ve kept the most powerful and effective tools.

    Over the last 3 years I have perfected those tools to specifically help you cure your social anxiety and become socially confident. I have studied, taken courses, and have become a specialist in solving social anxiety.

    I now use the best and most effective tools in my 1 on 1 coaching to get you to social confidence as rapidly as possible.

    And I've created a special page where you can do routine work that doesn't have to be done by 1 on 1 coaching. So you only use the 1 on 1 sessions where necessary, saving you money.

  • You don’t have to have any specific prior knowledge of anything

    This is not something you have to read and understand. You don’t have to read a 300 page book on how to cure social anxiety to find out something that only slightly helps you. If at all...

  • I am responsible for helping you to overcome this

    You can just follow my lead and notice feeling more calm and confident after each and every session.

  • We’ll be using a unique and highly effective approach to cure social anxiety

    So you don’t have to study psychology and self help for years worrying about finding the perfect techniques to cure your social anxiety disorder. I have already done this for you.

    Which means you can use the time you normally spend looking for solutions on your school and/or work. So you can give it your all in your profession and build your life up for the better.

  • You are simply following my guidance and advice

    So you can’t make any mistakes, your recovery is in my hands. No worries for you about doing it wrong, just follow my lead. This means that you can just enjoy the process and notice what is happening.

    It’s the easiest, most painless and comfortable way of becoming socially confident.





What Results You Can Expect From
"Social Anxiety to Social Confidence Guaranteed" :

You will first get some very simple and straightforward exercises to do yourself (following along with a video, an audio and a written exercise) to achieve acceptance of your situation.

After you have done these exercises you will feel calm and accepting about your social anxiety and you will feel optimistic about your inevitable recovery.

This is required for the change we want to achieve.

Then we meet 1 on 1 and cure your social anxiety by releasing all negative emotions and limiting beliefs.

After that we start installing new, empowering emotions, positive beliefs and new behaviors.

Once we get you to feel totally calm and comfortable in social situations, you will enjoy improving your social skills and getting the social life of your dreams.


This in turn causes you to:

  • stop blushing
  • be comfortable maintaining eye contact
  • lose your intense fear of rejection
  • be able to calmly deal with criticism
  • be able to laugh when people make fun of you
  • feel comfortable being the centre of attention

And you will also

  • stop caring what people think of you
  • let go of your negative thinking and develop positive thinking habits
  • feel at ease meeting new people, including the opposite sex
  • start to enjoy socializing and going to social gatherings
  • be surprised by the speed of improvement of your social skills
  • finally be able to be your true self in social settings
  • Much, much more

All of this results in you starting to become a relaxed, confident, socially well-adjusted person.

Imagine finally going out to a social gathering and actually having fun, being in the moment and enjoying yourself!

TESTIMONIAL:

“Now I am able to be relaxed and have fun in social situations“

...


My experience with the Social Confidence coaching was life saving and life changing.

It turned my life around and turned me around and pointed me in the right direction to cure my Social Anxiety and depression.

Instead of walking backwards and falling back to my regular negative cycle, the coaching and the tools in the coaching was what gave me hope.

They kept me going to be free from anxiety and negative emotions because I knew the coaching was working session after session.

Sometimes I didn’t even realize I improved until I was like “what the hell did I just do that?!” I was doing things I wasn’t able to do without feeling intense anxiety and negative thoughts.

My life before the coaching was like a trap that I couldn’t escape. I was agoraphobic and I had a lot of trouble going out of my house. I missed out on a lot of friend invites to hangout and lots of parties.

I couldn’t even sit in class in my desk in peace and concentrate on my work because I had too many anxious thoughts and feelings and I felt like everyone was judging my every move.

I was practically paralyzed by anxiety. I felt like there was no way out of this hole I was in.

Until I bumped in to Sebastiaan and he introduced me to all his coaching tools that gave me immediate results and I was moving forward week by week getting better and better.

My experience with the coaching was great. Sebastiaan (the coach) was very understanding and encouraging and had my best intensions in mind.

Session after session I gained a ton of new knowledge to keep me motivated and coming back for more.

He is a great coach and knows all the shortcuts to cure Social Anxiety Disorder as quick as possible and permanently.

When you feel better and notice progress the only thing that happens after that is more and more progress. The anxiety doesn’t come back. Its all uphill. The EFT technique was an awesome tool to get rid of my negative feelings and emotions like anxiety, hopelessness, depression etc.

Now I am able to be relaxed and have fun in social situations without letting fear or anxiety ruin it for me. I feel positive feelings and emotions that I’ve never felt before in a long time and it brought back memories of times were my anxiety wasn’t bad and I remember feeling those same emotions and feelings and I knew the old me was coming back.

Now talking to people and going out doesn’t sound like a nightmare and I no longer worry about it weeks before the situation because I know everything is going to go well and I will have a great time. And I do.

This is a great package I would definitely recommend anyone suffering with social anxiety disorder to try. I was a bit skeptical before trying it cause it sounded to good to be true but I’m glad I did it and didn’t let my negative mind win and decided to give it a try. There’s nothing to loose and everything to gain!

-Cesar Portillo lpcezar@yahoo.com



What Happens Once You Order 1 on 1 Social Confidence Coaching...

Once you have ordered 1 on 1 sessions I will contact you as soon as possible (within 24 hours).

In my introductory email I will send to you a client questionnaire you have to fill out which will help me to assist you in coaching you more effectively. This also helps you to get a clear understanding of what your ultimate goal is.

Having this clear goal propels your mind forward because it realizes the benefit of the treatment.

Then we agree upon a time for our first session and I'll send you the link and password to the special page and will give you instructions on what exactly to do.

So you will know exactly what is happening, why we will be doing what we will be doing, why it works and what to expect.

And due to you already doing the prework on the special page (reading of specific articles, following along with an audio and a video and doing two simple and effective exercises) you will also feel optimistic and positive even before we start our coaching.

Then we meet for our first session and work on achieving social confidence for you. After every session you will receieve some suggested homework (which is always very simple and straightforward) for more rapid success.

“So Why Is This 1 On 1 Coaching For YOU?”

  • Because you are ready to finally give up the struggle

    You are done with the struggle, you’ve had enough. You want to wake up happy, excited about your satisfying social life.

    You can then finally enjoy every day; looking forward to socializing and being a relaxed individual.

    How about actually enjoying the normal things to do every day while being free of any anxiety?

  • Because you no longer want to feel bored and lonely
  • Because you finally want to feel at ease anywhere you go and be yourself in social situations

    Isn’t it time for you to finally feel at ease and be yourself in whatever group of people you find yourself? What about feeling comfortable talking to people in authority? You can finally feel at ease and enjoy meeting new people and making friends.

    After we cure your social anxiety you have the power to create, expand, rebuild or improve your social life.

  • Because you want to get ahead in life and enjoy exciting new adventures

    Much more of your world will open up once we cure your social anxiety disorder. Since you are not afraid of getting out of your comfort zone socially anymore, you can finally tackle new challenges with confidence.

    Like starting a new hobby that you have previously been to afraid of. Or taking up dance lessons or going traveling for example.

    You will finally feel comfortable at your school/work, which will lead to better results.

    You won’t be carrying these heavy, draining negative emotions and limiting beliefs with you anymore, so you will feel more energized.

    Plus you will have more time to invest in getting ahead in life.

    Since you can do this, you will be more successful in the long run because you can focus on what’s important instead of worrying about your social anxiety.

  • Because you want to be more FIT and feel more attractive

    Since we work on your self image and on self acceptance, you will feel more attractive. This state radiates outwardly.

    And since your mind won’t be busy trying to fight all the negative thoughts anymore, you will feel less tired and much more energetic.

  • Because you want satisfying intimate relationships

    You will start to become comfortable flirting with the opposite sex. So you can start dating and creating or improving your love life.

    Once we cure your social anxiety disorder, you will be able to create deeper and more satisfying connections with your friends, family and co-workers. This because you won’t reject people so fast anymore out of your own fear of getting rejected.

    So as a result of you being more open, people will start to like you more and you will start to like people more.

  • Because you want to feel excited and LOOK FORWARD to upcoming social events

    No more weekends spending by yourself. Finally looking forward to the weekends, instead of dreading them! Going out and having fun!

    All of the above will make you a grateful, more happy person and you will be excited to enjoy living your life to the fullest.

  • Because you want social confidence for the rest of your life!

Once we cure your social anxiety, it's gone. As in gone FOREVER, for it to never come back!



TESTIMONIAL:

“I made out with a girl for the first time at a fraternity party on campus :-)“

Me: I've coached Ricky for 10 sessions. This is what he wrote me after the first session (I of course have gotten Ricky's permission to share this):



Ricky: Just to comment, I have the first good sleep in my life naturally last night. Thank you!

I guess it was because I had nightmares about people beating me up before, and now that my bullying problem is like resolved or partially resolved, I feel a lot better!

I've been having like really terrible sleep problems, and last night was really the first time I went to sleep almost immediately, and this morning, i was surprised that I woke up at 10:30am, which is weird because I usually wake up intermittently between 8am, then fall back asleep, wake up at 9am, 10am, 12am, 1pm etc...

Wow...

Also, the first time I studied yesterday, it was like the first time I had like laser concentration and focus again. I feel like I am realizing my max potential since I am more focused with less internal emotional distractions. wow..

Thx you Sebastiaan



Me again: Now this was pretty great already, but once we finished coaching after 10 sessions this is what Ricky send me a few days ago (which made my day!):


Ricky: "Just wanted to update you. I made out with a girl for the first time at a fraternity party on campus. :-)

I just walked up to her, with uber confidence, and started dancing with her, and we just made out :-D

I never kissed a girl before, so it was like "woah" lol kinda thing.

Thank you dude, if I didn't use EFT and your tapping session to get over approach anxiety, I would have lived a different life right now. Thank you."


Isn’t NOW the time for you to finally live life to the fullest?

If you are serious about this, and you are ready to finally leave your social anxiety behind and claim the life that you deserve, this is the help you have been looking for.

I believe you deserve it.



The Options:


Platinum Package

Ten 90 minutes EFT/MTT sessions for €700,- (Save €200,-) + access to the special page + unlimited email support during our coaching. This will take place over a period of 3 months max.


You will first receive access to a special page that consists of videos, articles and exercises. Before we start our first session everything will be clear to you because you have been able to read it on the special page.

So no time wasting in our sessions. I respect your time and want you to get the best results in the fastest possible way. This is the way to go.

You will also already feel excited and motivated to get the coaching started as you have already felt a shift from doing the exercises and following along with the videos on the specific page.

You will feel calm and positive about the coaching process to achieve social confidence.

Once we meet for the first time I access where your problems are and help you release some of the most heavy blocks.

Then I'll give you 'homework' for the next week. This will be specific homework you will do with the help of the videos articles and exercises on the special page.

The next time we meet for a 1 on 1 session we evaluate how you are doing, see how much progress you have made, clear some more big blocks and I will instruct you on what to do for the coming week.

This pattern continues for 3 months in which we have ten 1 on 1 90 minute sessions.

You will at a bare minimum have solved 75% of your social anxiety. But if you do all I instruct you to do you can expect a MUCH higer percentage and most likely we will have achieved your goal; Feeling completely calm and confident in all social situations.




Diamond Package

Five 90 minutes EFT/MTT sessions for €375,- (Save €75,-) + access to the special page. This will take place over the period of 6 weeks.


You will first receive access to a special page that consists of videos, articles and exercises. Before we start our first session everything will be clear to you because you have been able to read it on the special page.

So no time wasting in our sessions. I respect your time and want you to get the best results in the fastest possible way. This is the way to go.

You will also already feel excited and motivated to get the coaching started as you have already felt a shift from doing the exercises and following along with the videos on the specific page.

You will feel calm and positive about the coaching process to achieve social confidence.

Once we meet for the first time I access where your problems are and help you release some of the most heavy blocks.

Then I'll give you 'homework' for the next week. This will be specific homework you will do with the help of the videos articles and exercises on the special page.

The next time we meet for a 1 on 1 session we evaluate how you are doing, see how much progress you have made, clear some more big blocks and I will instruct you on what to do for the coming week.

This pattern continues for 6 weeks in which we have five 1 on 1 90 minute sessions.

You will at a bare minimum have solved 50% of your social anxiety. But if you do all I instruct you to do you can expect a MUCH higer percentage.




Gold Package:

Three 90 minutes EFT/MTT sessions for €240,- (Save €30,-) + access to the special page. This will take place over the period of 1 month.


You will first receive access to a special page that consists of videos, articles and exercises. Before we start our first session everything will be clear to you because you have been able to read it on the special page.

So no time wasting in our sessions. I respect your time and want you to get the best results in the fastest possible way. This is the way to go.

You will also already feel excited and motivated to get the coaching started as you have already felt a shift from doing the exercises and following along with the videos on the specific page.

You will feel calm and positive about the coaching process to achieve social confidence.

Once we meet for the first time I access where your problems are and help you release some of the most heavy blocks.

Then I'll give you 'homework' for the next week. This will be specific homework you will do with the help of the videos articles and exercises on the special page.

The next time we meet for a 1 on 1 session we evaluate how you are doing, see how much progress you have made, clear some more big blocks and I will instruct you on what to do for the coming week.

This pattern continues for 1 month in which we have three 1 on 1 90 minute sessions.

You will at a bare minimum have solved 35% of your social anxiety. But if you do all I instruct you to do you can expect a MUCH higer percentage.



This will be the best investment in yourself you will ever make.
(For special situations, payment plans are available. And if you are socially confident already and you have purchased sessions left, those sessions will be refunded.)



TESTIMONIAL:

“I felt more at ease and able to contribute to conversations and really enjoy myself without having to worry about what others thought of me“

trevordowdle@gmail.com: Hi, I have been struggling with social anxiety for many years. In middle school I was so afraid of what other people would think of me that I hardly ever spoke out in school.

I had a desire to be social but my anxiety held me back. I watched as other kids talked and enjoyed themselves in social situations. I knew there was something wrong, and wanted to change it desperately my problem was taking the joy out of life.

I felt trapped.

Throughout highschool I worked improving my social ability with limited success. As time went on I got more and more determined to overcome my anxiety, I worked hard to put myself out there in unconfortable situations. I continued to make progress, but it was a long and painful process.

In my search to overcome my social anxiety I came acrossed Sebastiaan's site, and decided to give it a try, if it really worked it would be worth every penny.


As soon as I started EFT with Sebastiaan, I noticed marked differences in how I felt during social situations, I felt more at ease and able to contribute to conversations and really enjoy myself without having to worry about what others thought of me.

This was a great help, I was able to make some great strides to becoming social anxiety free! Even though I still feel anxiety at times, I believe it is no more than a normal person would feel, and it does not affect me in a negative way.

My social anxiety is no longer controlling my life, and I am so grateful for that!

Thanks Sebastiaan!



If you have any questions regarding any of the package deals above, feel free to ask your question below.

I also offer a free 15 minute consultation via either Skype (you can IM, I will be speaking and be on cam), Yahoo or MSN messenger.

Here you can ask me any question and see if I can help you with your challenges. If you are interested in this, just use the contact form below and mention how you would like to interact with me.

I will be happy to answer you within 24 hours.



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I wish you social confidence and a happy, satisfying social life.

All the best,

Sebastiaan

"Go from social anxiety to social confidence and create the social life of your dreams!"

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